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		<title>By: ex girlfriend back</title>
		<link>http://blog.newsarama.com/2009/01/17/i-have-been-remiss/comment-page-1/#comment-503745</link>
		<dc:creator>ex girlfriend back</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2010 18:18:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Like very many other people I  was desperate for help, for signs, for God...K Love once again has bless me.After been married for 16 yrs my ex-husband abandond me and my kids left me alone. I have built so much resentment and become so defensive that I not only disrespect my currently boyfriend I have disrecpect myself.Impatient, intorelant,Insecure...etc....describes me I had a bad start of a yr but I feel like this is a 2nd chance for me.Thank you. So help me God and Bless everyone on this challenge.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Like very many other people I  was desperate for help, for signs, for God&#8230;K Love once again has bless me.After been married for 16 yrs my ex-husband abandond me and my kids left me alone. I have built so much resentment and become so defensive that I not only disrespect my currently boyfriend I have disrecpect myself.Impatient, intorelant,Insecure&#8230;etc&#8230;.describes me I had a bad start of a yr but I feel like this is a 2nd chance for me.Thank you. So help me God and Bless everyone on this challenge.</p>
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		<title>By: Russ Burlingame</title>
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		<dc:creator>Russ Burlingame</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jan 2009 17:30:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Another aspect of this whole thing that has been glossed over: How stupid does this guy thing MALE readers are, that somehow female superheroes only exist to appeal to women? Apparently none of us are allowed to be interested in characters that don&#039;t look and act just like us? I think I have more in common with the girl at the supermarket than I do with the guy in &quot;Superman.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Another aspect of this whole thing that has been glossed over: How stupid does this guy thing MALE readers are, that somehow female superheroes only exist to appeal to women? Apparently none of us are allowed to be interested in characters that don&#8217;t look and act just like us? I think I have more in common with the girl at the supermarket than I do with the guy in &#8220;Superman.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Daryll B</title>
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		<dc:creator>Daryll B</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jan 2009 13:21:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Spooky at least you and your best friend has had INTELLIGENT conversation about this subject. With a lot of places I notice, gender in sci-fi/comics usually degrades into the lowest common factor rather quickly.

Female Lead Heroes can work if they get the right vehicle. Bionic Woman, Xena, the Charmed ladies, Alias, Buffy, Wonder Woman all worked on their shows because of the tone and manner of story fit the character.

Come on a Black Widow &quot;James Bond&#039; type film or a majestic WW live action film would kick all sorts of ass.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Spooky at least you and your best friend has had INTELLIGENT conversation about this subject. With a lot of places I notice, gender in sci-fi/comics usually degrades into the lowest common factor rather quickly.</p>
<p>Female Lead Heroes can work if they get the right vehicle. Bionic Woman, Xena, the Charmed ladies, Alias, Buffy, Wonder Woman all worked on their shows because of the tone and manner of story fit the character.</p>
<p>Come on a Black Widow &#8220;James Bond&#8217; type film or a majestic WW live action film would kick all sorts of ass.</p>
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		<title>By: spooky Chan</title>
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		<dc:creator>spooky Chan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jan 2009 10:14:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>it&#039;s a shame that gender generalizations still come up and that we still place people in gender roles. [least this moron did it in spades]

What is sad is that there is a lack of CONTENT related to Women in a super hero fashion. 

[i&#039;m more focusing this toward Mr. Wesley&#039;s reply now, which might have some baring on all of this. And expanding edc&#039;s reply as well.]

-perhaps what&#039;s the real deal is that it comes down to who&#039;s writing what, and what their goal is to achieve with the character. 

Some questions to consider:
What is the character&#039;s point/journey/state of being have to do with us? Does the character being female, effect how they approach a situation? Do they face bias? What do their foes think of them as an adversary? Is gender important to the character? All these things are important to WHAT and WHO the character is. If the character is merely to fill in a &quot;quota&quot; of having a female protagonist, then it can be very shallow and borderlining on pure gender stereotype [and even solely as a sex-object/eye candy]. -And if we make the character overtly feminine and caring, we lose the ability for the character to act as a &quot;super hero&quot; type of personality. Tricky tasks to meet from a writers point of view, especially if a writer isn&#039;t a female [not to say that men can&#039;t write convincing females, but they always say that you should always write what you know.]

It&#039;s a hard balance, but I don&#039;t know of many female characters who are done with care to make a fully realized woman super hero.

Actually me and my best friend we&#039;re having this conversation not to long ago. We&#039;re actually quite interested in making a female super hero, who isn&#039;t about being on &quot;the rag&quot;, or managing a family- but somebody who is strong and who has more purpose than being &quot;eye-candy.&quot; [though nothing wrong with looking sexy!]


Anyways just a few additional thoughts I wanted to add to this conversation.

Sorry if i rambled. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>it&#8217;s a shame that gender generalizations still come up and that we still place people in gender roles. [least this moron did it in spades]</p>
<p>What is sad is that there is a lack of CONTENT related to Women in a super hero fashion. </p>
<p>[i'm more focusing this toward Mr. Wesley's reply now, which might have some baring on all of this. And expanding edc's reply as well.]</p>
<p>-perhaps what&#8217;s the real deal is that it comes down to who&#8217;s writing what, and what their goal is to achieve with the character. </p>
<p>Some questions to consider:<br />
What is the character&#8217;s point/journey/state of being have to do with us? Does the character being female, effect how they approach a situation? Do they face bias? What do their foes think of them as an adversary? Is gender important to the character? All these things are important to WHAT and WHO the character is. If the character is merely to fill in a &#8220;quota&#8221; of having a female protagonist, then it can be very shallow and borderlining on pure gender stereotype [and even solely as a sex-object/eye candy]. -And if we make the character overtly feminine and caring, we lose the ability for the character to act as a &#8220;super hero&#8221; type of personality. Tricky tasks to meet from a writers point of view, especially if a writer isn&#8217;t a female [not to say that men can't write convincing females, but they always say that you should always write what you know.]</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a hard balance, but I don&#8217;t know of many female characters who are done with care to make a fully realized woman super hero.</p>
<p>Actually me and my best friend we&#8217;re having this conversation not to long ago. We&#8217;re actually quite interested in making a female super hero, who isn&#8217;t about being on &#8220;the rag&#8221;, or managing a family- but somebody who is strong and who has more purpose than being &#8220;eye-candy.&#8221; [though nothing wrong with looking sexy!]</p>
<p>Anyways just a few additional thoughts I wanted to add to this conversation.</p>
<p>Sorry if i rambled. <img src='http://blog.newsarama.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Mr Wesley</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mr Wesley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jan 2009 15:30:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So...

Catwoman
Elektra
Supergirl
My Super Ex-Girlfriend.

Begs the question: did these movies fail because they were superhero movies for women, or because they were crap?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So&#8230;</p>
<p>Catwoman<br />
Elektra<br />
Supergirl<br />
My Super Ex-Girlfriend.</p>
<p>Begs the question: did these movies fail because they were superhero movies for women, or because they were crap?</p>
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		<title>By: edc</title>
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		<dc:creator>edc</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jan 2009 09:14:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>batzarro:

catwoman and elektra.

perhaps if the screenwriters focus on character or substance rather than the sex of a person, we can look up to a character, male or female.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>batzarro:</p>
<p>catwoman and elektra.</p>
<p>perhaps if the screenwriters focus on character or substance rather than the sex of a person, we can look up to a character, male or female.</p>
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		<title>By: Batzarro</title>
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		<dc:creator>Batzarro</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jan 2009 05:04:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Waitaminnit? What female Superhero movies HAVE been done as of late? Aside from Rom-com Super-Exgirlfriend and years ago film Supergirl, I can&#039;t quite remember any female superheroine getting her own movie? What on blazes is he even talking about? Is this some trend that has gone by me?

I mean, I don&#039;t think it&#039;s an overdone genre in a way there can be, like more than one IN A SINGLE YEAR!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Waitaminnit? What female Superhero movies HAVE been done as of late? Aside from Rom-com Super-Exgirlfriend and years ago film Supergirl, I can&#8217;t quite remember any female superheroine getting her own movie? What on blazes is he even talking about? Is this some trend that has gone by me?</p>
<p>I mean, I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s an overdone genre in a way there can be, like more than one IN A SINGLE YEAR!</p>
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		<title>By: Tanzim Rahman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tanzim Rahman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jan 2009 04:13:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The lack of successful female comic characters is indeed unfortunate.....but articles like Mr. Tyler&#039;s do nothing to solve this problem, do they? There have been a number of strong female leads in comics in recent years(like Deena Pilgrim in Powers for example or Peter David&#039;s Fallen Angel) but they don&#039;t seem to interest neither boys nor girls. They certainly do not seem to get the same amount of respect as male superheroes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The lack of successful female comic characters is indeed unfortunate&#8230;..but articles like Mr. Tyler&#8217;s do nothing to solve this problem, do they? There have been a number of strong female leads in comics in recent years(like Deena Pilgrim in Powers for example or Peter David&#8217;s Fallen Angel) but they don&#8217;t seem to interest neither boys nor girls. They certainly do not seem to get the same amount of respect as male superheroes.</p>
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		<title>By: Jahn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jahn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jan 2009 19:09:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There are valid points in the article that are being missed entirely.  Did you read Twilight... it is the most chauvinistic and sexist piece of female oriented literature out there.  The main character is all about being protected and constantly throws herself into harmful situations just so she can be saved by someone.  Then, when he leaves (because its too dangerous) she gets way to emotion and writes nothing in her &quot;journal&quot; for three months.  

There are differences in gender roles.  Im not saying that those roles have to be set in place.  But there is psychological evidence about the fantasies and desires relating to the differences between the two sexes.  As stated, there is some overlap.  But, men like to reinvent themselves in their dreams into someone entirely new, while females more often then not create a new reality around themselves where they are the princess (taken from gaiman).   

Although women may view Buffy and Xena as strong female characters, I guarantee a majority of the audience was male or Whedonites. 

There is no denying the lack of success in female comic characters.  Something should be done to change this because I believe there could be a future in it... but it may just involve changing alot about the world and how to raise our children.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are valid points in the article that are being missed entirely.  Did you read Twilight&#8230; it is the most chauvinistic and sexist piece of female oriented literature out there.  The main character is all about being protected and constantly throws herself into harmful situations just so she can be saved by someone.  Then, when he leaves (because its too dangerous) she gets way to emotion and writes nothing in her &#8220;journal&#8221; for three months.  </p>
<p>There are differences in gender roles.  Im not saying that those roles have to be set in place.  But there is psychological evidence about the fantasies and desires relating to the differences between the two sexes.  As stated, there is some overlap.  But, men like to reinvent themselves in their dreams into someone entirely new, while females more often then not create a new reality around themselves where they are the princess (taken from gaiman).   </p>
<p>Although women may view Buffy and Xena as strong female characters, I guarantee a majority of the audience was male or Whedonites. </p>
<p>There is no denying the lack of success in female comic characters.  Something should be done to change this because I believe there could be a future in it&#8230; but it may just involve changing alot about the world and how to raise our children.</p>
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		<title>By: Mr. Spock</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mr. Spock</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jan 2009 17:03:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Peter, you give &quot;logic&quot; a bad name. Please stop trying to evoke it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Peter, you give &#8220;logic&#8221; a bad name. Please stop trying to evoke it.</p>
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		<title>By: Shaun</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shaun</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jan 2009 16:59:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Fine, Peter... You can be as naive, chauvenistic and (yes) ILLogical as Mr Tyler is.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fine, Peter&#8230; You can be as naive, chauvenistic and (yes) ILLogical as Mr Tyler is.</p>
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		<title>By: Erech</title>
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		<dc:creator>Erech</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jan 2009 16:23:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Like you don&#039;t already know the answer to that ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Like you don&#8217;t already know the answer to that <img src='http://blog.newsarama.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: mbrady</title>
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		<dc:creator>mbrady</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jan 2009 16:21:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>we&#039;ll pull that out, but as always, Google ads are keyed to keywords that they choose as well as the individual&#039;s browsing and cookies...

that aside, how did the quiz turn out? Are you? </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>we&#8217;ll pull that out, but as always, Google ads are keyed to keywords that they choose as well as the individual&#8217;s browsing and cookies&#8230;</p>
<p>that aside, how did the quiz turn out? Are you?</p>
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		<title>By: Erech</title>
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		<dc:creator>Erech</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jan 2009 16:19:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://erechoveraker.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/ironyblog.jpg&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;I have nothing useful to add to this conversation.&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://erechoveraker.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/ironyblog.jpg" rel="nofollow">I have nothing useful to add to this conversation.</a></p>
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		<title>By: Tanzim Rahman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tanzim Rahman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jan 2009 13:56:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You know, stupidity like this really surprises me. &quot;Don&#039;t try to force feed girls what men want&quot;? what is this, the 15th century? are there any laws that state that girls HAVE to watch superhero movies? Similarly, where does it say that liking musicals is unmanly?

If a girl wants to watch and like a superhero movie, thats what she sould do. Same goes for a guy and a musical.

I don&#039;t know what Josh Tyler&#039;s intention was when writing this article, but i can&#039;t picture any sane human being supporting this pile of S#^%.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You know, stupidity like this really surprises me. &#8220;Don&#8217;t try to force feed girls what men want&#8221;? what is this, the 15th century? are there any laws that state that girls HAVE to watch superhero movies? Similarly, where does it say that liking musicals is unmanly?</p>
<p>If a girl wants to watch and like a superhero movie, thats what she sould do. Same goes for a guy and a musical.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know what Josh Tyler&#8217;s intention was when writing this article, but i can&#8217;t picture any sane human being supporting this pile of S#^%.</p>
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		<title>By: edc</title>
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		<dc:creator>edc</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jan 2009 13:37:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yeah, they should make a movie that 2% of theatre going women, and maybe 30% - 50%  of theatre going men will see to prove that comics are &quot;equal&quot;.
[WW doesn&#039;t count, as she is too awesome to tank at the b.o.]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yeah, they should make a movie that 2% of theatre going women, and maybe 30% &#8211; 50%  of theatre going men will see to prove that comics are &#8220;equal&#8221;.<br />
[WW doesn't count, as she is too awesome to tank at the b.o.]</p>
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		<title>By: Peter</title>
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		<dc:creator>Peter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jan 2009 12:30:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Shaun,

Please do not apologize for me, he may have not expressed his idea well but his logic is spot on..</description>
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<p>Please do not apologize for me, he may have not expressed his idea well but his logic is spot on..</p>
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		<title>By: breakfast</title>
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		<dc:creator>breakfast</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jan 2009 08:33:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Anyone who thinks that genetics determines someone&#039;s interests is in desperate need of help, I think.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Anyone who thinks that genetics determines someone&#8217;s interests is in desperate need of help, I think.</p>
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		<title>By: Shaun</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shaun</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jan 2009 02:40:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, Sarah... I&#039;m (mostly) speechless after reading that nimrod&#039;s article. It&#039;s not like I&#039;ve never made an off-color joke in my life, but this is just incredible.

I can apologize, on behalf of men everywhere, for that guy&#039;s idiocy?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, Sarah&#8230; I&#8217;m (mostly) speechless after reading that nimrod&#8217;s article. It&#8217;s not like I&#8217;ve never made an off-color joke in my life, but this is just incredible.</p>
<p>I can apologize, on behalf of men everywhere, for that guy&#8217;s idiocy?</p>
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